I am 58 and sexually attracted to guys since my mid-teens but also to girls. 26 years of marriage, kids and never letting anyone know my 'dark secret'.
I was born in a very strict and poor Nigerian family. I thought I was pretty normal until I was told that, in fact, I was different.
Pierrot Obi’s Coming Out Story
As the new year approaches, we reflect on the year that has passed, and tend to look forward to (or fear) the year ahead. Here 6 things to quit in 2019.
6 Things To Quit In 2019 – New Year Resolutions
Jack Parow recently posted a homophobic meme to Twitter. The meme includes a picture of musicians the Jonas brothers and bottles of Parow brandy. The photo of the Jonas brothers is labelled with “moffies”, a derogatory phrase to describe gay men while the words ‘die manne’ (the men) are written […]
Rapper Jack Parow posts homophobic tweet
Christmas is a time to relax and have fun, but this may create a financial burden. Try some of these tips to save money this Christmas.
6 best ways to save money this Christmas
The season of gift-giving is finally here! Take a look at the best Xmas gifts for any gay man in your life, choose one from the list and you’re good to go!
5 Best Xmas Gifts for the Gay Men in Your ...
2 Getting older isn't always a bad thing, especially when it comes with maturity and wisdom to lead a more happy and fulfilling life. Here are some habits that I feel we can give up before we turn 30 (or now, if you are already over 30).
Why you should stop these bad habits before you turn ...
Being gay and religious can be challenging because it often feels like most gay people are non-religious or anti-religious. Are you gay and religious?
Help, I’m gay and Christian. Is this a paradox?
GoodLuck is an exciting live electronic pop band from South Africa, and we've been able to engage with them in an interview. Music can be so powerful in connecting people, and inspiring people. I've been hearing their music quite a bit lately, and have absolutely fallen in love with them!
Be Yourself with GoodLuck
Alex Strangelove is a story about a teenager (Alex Truelove, played by Daniel Doheny) who, despite having dated his girlfriend, Claire, for 8 months, is still a virgin.
Movie Review: Alex Strangelove
5 This is a story about true love, and about loss. A gay relationship is as deep, significant and meaningful as a straight relationship.
A True Story on Love and Loss
Why do we fear coming out so much. It is a crushing fear, a demon that follows us through life, chipping away at our self-confidence.
Living a secret life and the fear of coming out
You may or may not have heard of GaySA Radio, a small Internet R@dio station. Started two years ago by two friends, the station has grown slowly but surely, culminating in its official launch at Pretoria Pride in October 2017.
Listen up! GaySA Radio is here
2 As a boy age six I knew in my heart I was not going to like girls, but instead boys and men were my thing. As a southern baptist preacher's kid, it was not going to be easy to say the words, I AM GAY.
I am not different, I am just gay
Prior to my explosion from the iron-wrought impenetrable oak closet, which I had remained cast away in for 20 long years, life had been, if I could describe it... "quite fucked up". Born into a family whose heritage and traditions passed generation to generation, encouraged young sons to follow along paths to a future in "fruits and veg and hairy daughters".