Here is what one of my readers wrote…
I was married for 4 years and have an 18 year old daughter. I came out at 30 when I met an amazing guy. We have been together now for almost 18 years and the relationship has started to become, well… sort of boring.
I met another guy and we played a couple of times. He is now so in love and I worry a lot about him. He is not out, Muslim, busy with exams and confused. I get ‘lovie’, ‘love u’ messages every minute.
The problem is that I am 48 and he is 18. Yeah, I know how absurd it sounds! He is an intelligent boy and easy to be around. Of course this is strictly secret as his religion, family and friends will NOT accept this. He is not a flapping queen, but rather a normal guy doing well in everything.
What do I do to stop this and not hurt him?
I am back with my boyfriend.